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The Safe Husband
Thursday, September 3
On the good man who made himself easy to live with, and disappeared.
Opens September 3Read the essay →On the false war between a man’s wanting and his decency, and how it costs him both.
On the good man who made himself easy to live with, and disappeared.
On the good man who made himself easy to live with, and disappeared. On the unspoken deal a quiet husband keeps paying into, and why it never pays out.
On the false war between a man’s wanting and his decency, and how it costs him both. On the one skill that changes everything: wanting as a current, not a demand. On what returns to a marriage when there is finally a self on both sides.
Desire is not the threat to your values. Suppressed desire is.
A new essay arrives every other Thursday morning. Each title below opens as it goes live.
On the good man who made himself easy to live with, and disappeared.
Opens September 3Read the essay →On the unspoken deal a quiet husband keeps paying into, and why it never pays out.
Opens September 17Read the essay →On the false war between a man’s wanting and his decency, and how it costs him both.
Opens October 1Read the essay →On the one skill that changes everything: wanting as a current, not a demand.
Opens October 15Read the essay →On what returns to a marriage when there is finally a self on both sides.
Opens October 29Read the essay →The WANTED course takes these five essays all the way through.
See the WANTED Course →