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Writing on identity, freedom, integrity, and the cost of living a life that is not yours. Published since 1997. Read one and see what lands.

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Leadership Nov 30, 2023

Bull Headed vs. Graceful Correction: Lessons from Apollos and the Way of God

Don't be "bullheaded"... my grandmother used to always say. A bull is a stubborn beast who gets its way in the world,...

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Life Nov 27, 2023

More Undignified Than This: Dress Down, Not Up for Worship

Essay | The Evolution of Church Attire: A Historical and Theological Exploration The practice of dressing up for church, deeply rooted in...

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Life Nov 26, 2023

Choosing Contentment: The Christian Perspective on the Paradox of Choice

In 2008 my professional life was very organized. Very Simple. This came after a time of great stress and pain, chaos and...

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Life Nov 22, 2023

Thanksgiving According to the Bible

Gratitude in Scripture: A Living Expression of Love and Thanks Gratitude, as revealed through the Scriptures, is not merely a fleeting sentiment...

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Health Nov 21, 2023

The Bible Doesn’t Answer Everything

It does speak to everything... in a way of wisdom. In the vast ocean of human experience, where waves of tradition and...

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Anchoring Faith Nov 20, 2023

Blame the Church… it’s time to be honest.

The Evangelical church in America is a leading contributor to dysfunctional views on marriage, family, and intimacy, thereby distorting the core message...

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Life Nov 19, 2023

Resting in Unseen Assurance: Embracing Faith Like Little Children

In the quiet confidence of a child who rests securely in the care of loving parents, unaware of the complexities and burdens...

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Life Nov 18, 2023

The Embodiment of Rest: Discovering Abundance in the Gospel of Christ

In the ever-turning pages of life's journey, amidst the ebbs and flows of trials and tranquility, there lies a profound truth, resonant...

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Life Nov 17, 2023

Embracing the Soul’s Sabbath: The Restful Work of the Spirit in Our Lives

In a world incessantly bustling with noise, haste, and unrest, the soul longs for a Sabbath—a place of rest not found on...

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Life Nov 13, 2023

Anchored in the Divine: My Reflections on the Restful Journey of Faith

As I reflect upon the journey of faith, a journey that has both challenged and comforted many, including myself, I am drawn...

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