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the unbound life.

Writing on identity, freedom, integrity, and the cost of living a life that is not yours. Published since 1997. Read one and see what lands.

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Discovery Jan 29, 2024

Today is the Best Day that You Will (N)Ever Have

A republishing of a substack post from Oct 2023Good memories are like tiny little movies in my brain. These celluloid flashes offer...

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Mindfulness Jan 24, 2024

No Inflation in the Economy of Love

In the quiet moments of reflection, a question often lingers in my mind: "How much is life worth? How much are we...

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Relationships Jan 23, 2024

Intimacy Requires Validation

Validating another person’s feelings is an emotional, relational, and, intriguingly, a biblical act that plays a critical role in fostering genuine connections,...

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Leadership Jan 20, 2024

Now I’ve Got To Cut You… but why?

Embracing Grace and Unity: A Biblical Response to Doctrinal Rigidity and Exclusion In contemporary Christian discourse, particularly within some sovereign grace movements,...

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Theology Jan 14, 2024

Why the Spirit Sanctifies the Elect

In exploring the profound question of why the Spirit sanctifies the elect, a journey through Scripture, particularly the teachings of Peter, offers...

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Discovery Jan 13, 2024

Men are a Mess. We need to deal with more than just toxic masculinity.

The post delves into the complexities of modern masculinity and explores the true nature of strength, emphasizing the importance of emotional connection,...

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Relationships Dec 22, 2023

Restoration of the Spiritual. Are You Spirit-led?

In Galatians 6:1, we find a profound instruction that not only encapsulates the essence of Christian community but also reflects the very...

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Theology Dec 21, 2023

Swearing an Oath and Paul’s Swearing by God

In this exploration, we delve into the nuanced interpretations of two significant biblical verses, Matthew 5:34 and Galatians 1:20, each addressing the...

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Leadership Dec 20, 2023

Teach Instead of Argue

In the midst of diverse and often conflicting interpretations within the Christian community, it's vital to focus on fostering unity and understanding...

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Discovery Dec 19, 2023

Fear and Freedom. Be Yourself in Both.

In this world fear often dictates our thoughts and actions, yet the Gospel presents a radically different narrative – one of freedom,...

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