Some may ask, “If our identity is in Christ, why talk about finding the inner self? Isn’t that self-focused and ungodly?” This is a common misunderstanding. The idea of self-discovery is not in conflict with biblical truth—it is the very process by which we understand how we were created in the image of God, redeemed…
Category: Life
The Decision to Love: Embracing the Best in Our Spouse
Love is a profound choice, a decision we make to embrace the best in our spouse or partner. In relationships, seeking the best in our significant other is the key to fostering a solid, caring, and mutually beneficial intimacy. Love is not merely a fleeting emotion; it is a profound decision. When we choose to…
Deceptive Dance: Unmasking the Difference
Years ago, I embarked on a journey to unravel the complexities of deceit. As I navigated through life’s intricate tapestry, I encountered two distinct faces of deception that left an indelible mark on my understanding of truth. Purposeful lies, where individuals intentionally speak falsehoods, and the silence of truth, where feelings and assumptions remain unspoken,…
An Exercise in Humility – A Brief.
In the realm of faith, there exists an ever-present need, an urgency that beckons us with a gentle yet firm voice—a need for humility. Humility, like a hidden gem, often goes unnoticed amidst the clamor and self-assuredness that pervade our spiritual journeys. Yet, it is in the embrace of humility that our faith finds its…
Embrace Authentic Living: Discover Freedom, Intimacy, and Bold Dreams
Are you tired of living in fear and shame? Do you long for genuine connections and the courage to pursue your boldest dreams? You’re not alone. I’m here to help you unlock the power within and embrace a life of authenticity. With over 25 years of experience, I have supported thousands of individuals on their…
Getting Our Minds Around Our Hearts
Learning to think wisely, authentically, and spiritually will secure us to a life of restful endurance. HeartfulMind: Empowering Emotions through Intelligent Thinking In a world where emotions often seem overwhelming and uncontrollable, the power of a HeartfulMind emerges as a guiding light. This unique approach emphasizes the transformative synergy between our heart’s wisdom and the…
A Preface: Thankful to the Women in My Life
Twenty-two years ago I started a book soon after the birth of my second daughter. Picking it up again in 2005 I subsequently lost the manuscript. Each attempt was during another season of my life where, as the father of daughters and husband to a bride beyond my dreams, I had to come to terms…
Hate is Wonderful?
Holding them in my hands, keeping them safe, these tiny persons had no one else – no other hero. If I couldn’t help them, there was no hope. I shared two stories about my childhood that both seemed like hate. One was emotion – the other… Love is not a feeling. It has never been…
Second Amendment Amendment Amended… An Idea worth Considering; Ban them.
Gun Control is a useful tool in deterring and mitigating gun violence, despite the staunch protests of 2A advocates who dismiss it as folly. One of my earliest memories of “working” involved being given a small hammer, a 2×4 full of nails, and instructions to remove them all. I quit after thirty minutes. By the…
Assumptive Assertions and Asprins
The Profound Influence of Assumptions: Unraveling Their Power Assumptions, adorned with alliteration, possess a remarkable ability to amplify and affect various aspects of our lives. From altering our perceptions and perspectives to shaping our decisions and relationships, assumptions hold significant sway over our thoughts and actions. Let’s delve into the intriguing world of assumptions, exploring…