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Writing on identity, freedom, integrity, and the cost of living a life that is not yours. Published since 1997.

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Gender Equality Sep 13, 2025

Eve is more of a Jesus than Adam: typology and redemption – Reclaiming Eve pt 15

Introduction: Eve as a Christological figure Eve’s name is rarely spoken without some trace of indictment. She is remembered as the one...

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Gender Equality Sep 11, 2025

Sexy Time and the Distorted Gospel – Reclaiming Eve pt 14

Eve, Sexuality, and the Church: Reclaiming a Theological Vision for Human Sexuality Unlearning the lie of shame Sexuality has never been simple,...

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Identity Aug 10, 2025

The Architecture of Patience

Patience is not a pause.It is not the limp waiting of someone stranded at a bus stop, glancing at a clock they...

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misogyny Jul 12, 2025

When the Church Forgot Christ: A Reckoning and a Way Home

There’s a version of the church that speaks the name of Jesus while resisting His way. I’ve been in its pulpits. I’ve...

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Are You Listening Apr 29, 2025

When Death is Better Than Growth

The Rift Within: How We Drift, How We Return Growth often feels like acceleration.Achievement, momentum, forward motion.But the quieter reality is that...

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Love Apr 13, 2025

When Love Is Not Love

A Resonant Mirror for the One Who’s Ready to Return to Themselves There is a moment—subtle, often quiet—when the smoke clears. Not...

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Life Apr 7, 2025

Affinity Feels Like Home… It Isn’t.

Affinity Feels Like Home. But Resonance Is Home. Affinity is the echo of something familiar. It draws you near because it feels...

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Are You Listening Apr 7, 2025

The best day of my life…

There is only one day I have ever truly lived. Not because I chose it. Not because it aligned with my desires....

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Thinking Apr 6, 2025

Maybe It Was Never About Being Funny

There was a time I couldn’t enter a room without making it laugh.Not because I wanted attention.But because it felt safer when...

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Identity Mar 14, 2025

Who Am I? My Values and Their Expressions Tell Me

I spent years peeling back the layers of who I thought I was, discarding what didn’t belong, and reinforcing what remained. What...

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