The Writing

Essays on living
the unbound life.

Writing on identity, freedom, integrity, and the cost of living a life that is not yours. Published since 1997.

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silhouette of a man standing inside a cave
At Full Strength Oct 9, 2026

To See Someone Whole

The most loving thing anyone has ever done to me was decline my explanation. The person you are editing is not being...

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girl writing on paper with a crayon
At Full Strength Oct 2, 2026

A Kid Doesn’t Sign A Contract

A man I know worked sixty hour weeks for nineteen years. He had been enforcing an agreement nobody else ever signed.

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man with pink umbrella under stormy sky in pampore
At Full Strength Sep 25, 2026

A Record Is Not a Forecast

There was a weekend in the second year. That weekend was real. It also happened once.

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selective focus photo of black wooden drawers
At Full Strength Sep 18, 2026

The Benefit of the Doubt Is a Loan

A woman I worked with told me she came apart over a coffee cup. She was not unstable. She was current.

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black and white closeup of rustic wall in venice
At Full Strength Sep 11, 2026

You Already Knew

Ask a person how long they have known and watch what happens to their face. They do not calculate. The answer is...

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closeup photography of radio receiver
At Full Strength Sep 4, 2026

The Dial

There is a particular kind of hearing loss that men who worked in mills carry, and the strange thing about it is...

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cheerful kitchen window view with daffodils
At Full Strength Aug 28, 2026

The Second Story

You are standing at the sink when the message arrives. Water still running. You read it once and something moves in your...

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