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Writing on identity, freedom, integrity, and the cost of living a life that is not yours. Published since 1997.

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Discovery Nov 11, 2025

Not Everything Yields to Hustle

There are kinds of work that cannot be forced. Wisdom does not bend to urgency. Discernment does not answer to volume. Character...

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Emotional Intelligence Feb 21, 2025

Guilt and Shame are NOT Motivators in Freedom

Guilt is a familiar weight, isn’t it? That creeping sensation that whispers, You should have done more. You should have been better....

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Discovery Oct 21, 2024

I Quit. Finding Myself in the Clouds of Culture [June 6, 2024]

[Yesterday, Oct 20, 2024, I commented in my sermon that I had divorced from the old me. It reminded me of my...

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Discovery Jun 6, 2024

You are probably not a narcissist.

Narcissism: A Theological Perspective "That person is just a narcissist." I hear this constantly in counseling. I often hear many people's self-confession...

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Life May 15, 2024

Psychobabble and Christian Fanaticism: Bridging Faith and Therapy

In the ministry, my impression of mental health care was negative from the beginning. My training contained nice little pejorative packages against...

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Mental Health Apr 27, 2023

Hunger for the Soul and the Body | A Reflection

"When Terrorism Comes Home." What you are about to hear will make you mad, it will scare you, and it will make...

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