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Essays on living
the unbound life.

Writing on identity, freedom, integrity, and the cost of living a life that is not yours. Published since 1997.

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Are You Listening Feb 24, 2026

I Will Not Dim Before I Am Done

There are poems that decorate language, and then there are poems that indict the soul. Dylan Thomas’ villanelle, written in 1951 as...

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Faith Dec 17, 2025

When Shame Masquerades as the Gospel (atheist pt3)

There is a moment that always comes when you name a counterfeit god. It is not outrage. It is not debate. It...

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Faith Sep 23, 2025

An Atheist Christian? How can it be? (Pt 1)

If I have to be an atheist in order to be a Christian in our culture, so be it. I will not...

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Are You Listening Feb 7, 2025

You Don’t Need to Posture Before God

I Am Always Spiritual, But Never Always One Thing For years, I lived under the weight of an assumption—that to be spiritual,...

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Faith Jan 12, 2025

Dead Faith, We’re Saved, Let’s Live It.

James writes his letter to early Jewish Christians dispersed among the nations, addressing their struggles with living out their faith in a...

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Discovery Oct 21, 2024

I Quit. Finding Myself in the Clouds of Culture [June 6, 2024]

[Yesterday, Oct 20, 2024, I commented in my sermon that I had divorced from the old me. It reminded me of my...

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Faith Apr 21, 2024

How Can We Love Like Jesus?

Embracing the Immutable Love of Christ: A Reflection on His Divine Mission and Identity In the hustle of our daily lives, amid...

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Are You Listening Apr 4, 2024

Being Christian Isn’t About Bible Studies

In the last decade, and more so in the last three years, I've embarked on a path of deep exploration and bold...

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Faith Apr 2, 2024

My UnBelief. A Journey Looking Back

From my journals one year ago. Tamed for publishing. Redacted for your conscience. Journal Entry: Embracing Faith Amidst Doubt - A Personal...

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Discovery Mar 4, 2024

Taking A Life to Live One

Journal Entry: The Night Everything Changed - One Year Ago Dear Journal, A year ago today. The day I died, drowned, and...

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