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Essays on living
the unbound life.

Writing on identity, freedom, integrity, and the cost of living a life that is not yours. Published since 1997.

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Are You Listening Feb 24, 2026

I Will Not Dim Before I Am Done

There are poems that decorate language, and then there are poems that indict the soul. Dylan Thomas’ villanelle, written in 1951 as...

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Faith Dec 17, 2025

When Shame Masquerades as the Gospel (atheist pt3)

There is a moment that always comes when you name a counterfeit god. It is not outrage. It is not debate. It...

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Leadership Sep 21, 2025

to lead in life is to love

true kindness and love True kindness and love are not rooted in convenience, performance, or appearances. They are not quick gestures or...

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Love Apr 13, 2025

When Love Is Not Love

A Resonant Mirror for the One Who’s Ready to Return to Themselves There is a moment—subtle, often quiet—when the smoke clears. Not...

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Are You Listening Jan 19, 2025

The Power of Touch. And it’s crutch – this man’s thoughts

When a Man is Wanted, Loved, Touched, and Known I’ve lived through the seasons of what it feels like to be wanted...

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Faith Jan 12, 2025

Dead Faith, We’re Saved, Let’s Live It.

James writes his letter to early Jewish Christians dispersed among the nations, addressing their struggles with living out their faith in a...

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Are You Listening Aug 11, 2024

The Church BE FREE

Living Freely Without Fear: A Call to the Church In the New Testament, the concept of freedom is central to the believer's...

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Love Aug 8, 2024

Unity of Mind, Part 1

The essence of Christian life, as outlined by Paul in Romans 12, demands a radical shift from self-centeredness to a communal existence...

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Discovery Jun 6, 2024

You are probably not a narcissist.

Narcissism: A Theological Perspective "That person is just a narcissist." I hear this constantly in counseling. I often hear many people's self-confession...

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Love Apr 22, 2024

I Wave My Banner Proudly!

Between Heritage and History: Reflections on Identity and Legacy Journal Entry: April 22, 2024 As I reflect on the nuanced distinctions between...

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