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Writing on identity, freedom, integrity, and the cost of living a life that is not yours. Published since 1997.

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Faith Dec 17, 2025

When Shame Masquerades as the Gospel (atheist pt3)

There is a moment that always comes when you name a counterfeit god. It is not outrage. It is not debate. It...

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Life Oct 2, 2025

You Can’t See what You Think You Do | Perception Destroys if Not Pure

seeing through the lens You do not see life as it is. You see it as you are. Every glance, every silence,...

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misogyny Jul 12, 2025

When the Church Forgot Christ: A Reckoning and a Way Home

There’s a version of the church that speaks the name of Jesus while resisting His way. I’ve been in its pulpits. I’ve...

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Are You Listening Apr 7, 2025

The best day of my life…

There is only one day I have ever truly lived. Not because I chose it. Not because it aligned with my desires....

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Thinking Apr 6, 2025

Maybe It Was Never About Being Funny

There was a time I couldn’t enter a room without making it laugh.Not because I wanted attention.But because it felt safer when...

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Life Dec 22, 2024

Fasting isn’t for Everyone… Discovery, Not Disaster

The Discipline of Fasting: Subtraction for Discovery, Discipline, and Devotion Fasting, as a spiritual discipline, has been practiced across centuries and cultures,...

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Life Nov 9, 2024

Opinion: The Lowest Form of Intellect?

What is an opinion but a spark, a flicker of thought? Opinions come swiftly, shaped by past notions and the familiar. They...

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Discovery Aug 21, 2024

A Reflection from Two Years Ago: Some Boxed Memories without Awareness

Oh, to see this truth in the midst of this moment was unbearable, and yet the Spirit of God kept me. At...

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Are You Listening Aug 11, 2024

The Church BE FREE

Living Freely Without Fear: A Call to the Church In the New Testament, the concept of freedom is central to the believer's...

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Are You Listening Apr 4, 2024

Being Christian Isn’t About Bible Studies

In the last decade, and more so in the last three years, I've embarked on a path of deep exploration and bold...

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