The Writing
Essays on living
the unbound life.
Writing on identity, freedom, integrity, and the cost of living a life that is not yours. Published since 1997.
The Question Not on the Table
There is a table you do not see, because it does not look like a table. It looks like a mood. It...
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Unbroken. Alive. Drowning no more.
Drowning to Live: Letting Go of the False Self and Rising into Freedom “Who is this?” I asked in my head as...
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The Dragonfly and the Tiger | Why the Fire Cannot Teach You Anything
There is a field behind a house somewhere in your memory, and late in the summer the air over it is thick...
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What the Far Shore Is Made Of | Getting Past the Hurt
On release, and on the crossings that never finish Everyone wants to know how the story ends. After the wound and the...
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The One Who Carries
How the serving mask operates in grief, and the path forward for those who love the person wearing it. The Mask Does...
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The HALL Moment | A Primer and Introduction to the Practice
High Amplitude Lived Legacy The moment when the gap between who you have been performing yourself to be and who you actually...
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Bound for the Sky
There is a particular terror reserved for the one who has learned to take off his masks. He removes them with great...
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The Seven Wonders of an Unbound Life
The Monuments You Do Not Build. The Ones You Uncover. There were seven wonders of the ancient world, and every one of...
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Not Everything Yields to Hustle
There are kinds of work that cannot be forced. Wisdom does not bend to urgency. Discernment does not answer to volume. Character...
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everyone is on the path of growth toward autonomy
Everyone is on the path of growth toward autonomy. Saying this is not to romanticize human existence or to suggest that every...
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