The Writing
Essays on living
the unbound life.
Writing on identity, freedom, integrity, and the cost of living a life that is not yours. Published since 1997. Read one and see what lands.
The Shim Under the Leg
Everything you make carries two sets of fingerprints. One set you put there on purpose. The other set you left without meaning...
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The Contracts You Never Signed
You hear your father's sentence come out of your mouth and conclude this is what you are. An essay on the agreements...
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Cling to the Rock
A man calls his closest friend every Sunday night and gives him the same three sentences. Work is good. Marriage is good....
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The Infidelity of Performing
Integrity is not about telling the truth. It is about who is doing the behavior underneath the behavior, and performing for someone...
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Ask the Question Twice
The first time you ask where a feeling actually came from, you usually get the polished answer. The real one is almost...
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Your Theology Doesn’t Match Your Life
Your Theology Doesn’t Match Your Life Part six of a series on the Religion Mask and what it costs the faithful The...
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The Mind They Borrowed and the Self You Never Became
There is a difference between having an answer and arriving at one. That distinction might sound minor on the surface, the way...
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Savor the Ride
A woman builds a schedule precise enough to run a small airport, every hour accounted for, every contingency mapped against, color coded...
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Seek REAL, not RAW
There was a time I believed urgency was proof. That if something ached enough, burned enough, surged through me unfiltered and wild,...
Read →Why This Will Never Be a Franchise
What licensing Integrated Life Architecture will actually mean
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