You need to love yourself. Stop listening otherwise.
I’ve been taught in many ways that any attempt to focus on “me” was wrong, sinful, selfish, and bad.
I call BS.
I think it’s time that everyone takes inventory, not based on what your culture has dictated, but on who you are.
I have lived my entire life without free intuition. (Yeah, yeah, don’t trust the heart… )
Instead, my fuel has been fear.
Perfect love casts out fear. If I can’t see this, I am still blind no matter what I know. I can see now. Better than ever.
What do you know? If you don’t love yourself, you can’t see the love of God either. And you can’t love others.
I choose life. Life chose me. I’m alive and I know why.
If this named something
you have been carrying —
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Praise the Lord, that He never stops teaching us. His mercies are new every morning. Shortly after entering the pastorate, I learned that Jesus meant every word when He said, “Love thy neighbor as thyself.” Of course, it all flows from God’s love for us, but it seems like loving “thyself” is a prerequisite for truly being able to love your neighbor. Blessings, brother.
Philippians 2:1-2, “1 Therefore if there is any encouragement in Christ, if there is any consolation of love, if there is any fellowship of the Spirit, if any affection and compassion, 2 make my joy complete by being of the same mind, maintaining the same love, united in spirit, intent on one purpose.”
Nearly a year ago I wrote these loose thoughts. Today I published a clearer direction… what do you think? https://jamestippins.substack.com/p/fear-is-my-fuel
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