In the intricate tapestry of human experience, certain moments stand as vivid reminders of a truth that often evades our attention. Recall the scene from “O Brother, Where Art Thou?” – while the context of the scene isn’t our focus, the underlying concept it encapsulates speaks to the interplay between context, perception, and the omnipresent…
The Decision to Love: Embracing the Best in Our Spouse
Love is a profound choice, a decision we make to embrace the best in our spouse or partner. In relationships, seeking the best in our significant other is the key to fostering a solid, caring, and mutually beneficial intimacy. Love is not merely a fleeting emotion; it is a profound decision. When we choose to…
Deceptive Dance: Unmasking the Difference
Years ago, I embarked on a journey to unravel the complexities of deceit. As I navigated through life’s intricate tapestry, I encountered two distinct faces of deception that left an indelible mark on my understanding of truth. Purposeful lies, where individuals intentionally speak falsehoods, and the silence of truth, where feelings and assumptions remain unspoken,…
An Exercise in Humility – A Brief.
In the realm of faith, there exists an ever-present need, an urgency that beckons us with a gentle yet firm voice—a need for humility. Humility, like a hidden gem, often goes unnoticed amidst the clamor and self-assuredness that pervade our spiritual journeys. Yet, it is in the embrace of humility that our faith finds its…
Embrace Authentic Living: Discover Freedom, Intimacy, and Bold Dreams
Are you tired of living in fear and shame? Do you long for genuine connections and the courage to pursue your boldest dreams? You’re not alone. I’m here to help you unlock the power within and embrace a life of authenticity. With over 25 years of experience, I have supported thousands of individuals on their…
Getting Our Minds Around Our Hearts
Learning to think wisely, authentically, and spiritually will secure us to a life of restful endurance. HeartfulMind: Empowering Emotions through Intelligent Thinking In a world where emotions often seem overwhelming and uncontrollable, the power of a HeartfulMind emerges as a guiding light. This unique approach emphasizes the transformative synergy between our heart’s wisdom and the…
A Preface: Thankful to the Women in My Life
Twenty-two years ago I started a book soon after the birth of my second daughter. Picking it up again in 2005 I subsequently lost the manuscript. Each attempt was during another season of my life where, as the father of daughters and husband to a bride beyond my dreams, I had to come to terms…
Hate is Wonderful?
Holding them in my hands, keeping them safe, these tiny persons had no one else – no other hero. If I couldn’t help them, there was no hope. I shared two stories about my childhood that both seemed like hate. One was emotion – the other… Love is not a feeling. It has never been…
Assumptive Assertions and Asprins
The Profound Influence of Assumptions: Unraveling Their Power Assumptions, adorned with alliteration, possess a remarkable ability to amplify and affect various aspects of our lives. From altering our perceptions and perspectives to shaping our decisions and relationships, assumptions hold significant sway over our thoughts and actions. Let’s delve into the intriguing world of assumptions, exploring…
When I Write About Life
Moving toward a more full-time role in writing has given me the opportunity to learn how successful both writing in community and from conversation can truly be. For four weeks I’ve been writing among creative peers, learning to develop better disciplines and skills for publishing. In that time I’ve learned more about myself and how…